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Observations on human behavior, relationships, and decision-making, drawn from decades of my professional and lived studies.
Just Sit With Me vs. Solutions: Why Clarity Matters
Just Sit With Me vs. Solutions: Why Clarity Matters
You might have scrolled past an image verse posted on social media by someone you know, and the gist of it is this: “Just sit with me in my unhappiness. Listen to me as long as I need you to. And don’t provide solutions.”
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Going No Contact: Are you really sure?
Going No Contact: Are you really sure?
There’s a small epidemic circulating amongst the TikTok crowd, and it’s the oft-promoted idea that some people are so “toxic” that you need to remove them entirely from your life.
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YOU DON'T NEED RELATIONSHIP CLOSURE (YOU ALREADY HAVE IT)
YOU DON'T NEED RELATIONSHIP CLOSURE (YOU ALREADY HAVE IT)
How many times have you heard someone say, “I don’t understand what happened. Why did they do this? I have to find out, because I need closure.” And with these words, the utterer of this missive starts down the road of fruitless inner turmoil and finding-out ploys that can border on obsession.
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